Libra 2012 Overview

Although many have secretly been dreading the arrival of 2012, you’ve personally been looking forward to it. That’s because karmic taskmaster Saturn has been doing a number on your life over the past two-plus years. Relationship lessons have been relentless throughout this time. If you haven’t made important decisions about where to commit - and where to quit - these are your final months to do so. Don’t wait another 30 years to get clear on what you truly want in your relationships. You’ll be in the throes of Saturn’s testing until October, when it moves into your neighboring sign, Scorpio. Consider this your final exam!

Jupiter will be in its fellow Venus-ruled sign of Taurus, making a magical aspect to your stars for a good portion of 2012. Jupiter’s lucky presence in your sector of sexuality, transformation and other people’s money brings every material and emotional resource you could ever want or need. You’ll have no problem attracting the proper support to fund your current or future projects. This is also the year for coming into your true power by transforming all the dead weight of your past. Change looks good on you, Libra. You’ve been shedding layers of karma, and now you’re about to reap the wonders of renewal.

World travel beckons in 2012, so pack your bags! The spring-summer eclipse patterns activate your travel sector in May and June, and Venus is in your travel sector between April and August. During the retrograde phase in May and June, you may want to be lay low or avoid more intricate itineraries. Mars will be spending the entire first half of the year in your sector of sleep, unconscious processes and dreams. This could create some inner turbulence (if not all-out insomnia) if you don’t give yourself enough expressive and physical outlets. As always, it’s about finding balance, Libra.

2012… a New Year ahead…

Today is the 1st day of 2012! Last year is over and Its not my lucky year and I want to say goodbye to the bad things and memories behind, and made up my mind to keep the good and happy memories of 2011. To think and hope for the better year ahead, and to be more optomistic for what is instore for me in these new year. I don’t have a new year’s resolutions, but I tell myself to be very careful and not to give easily my trust to anyone, in my personal life and in business as well. To trust myself more, to take care and love myself in order for me to give and share the love that I have in my heart to my love ones. In realization the people I meet in my life have always a purpose, some is there to test me, some would use me, some would teach me, and some would bring out the best in me. some friends will come and go and they left a marked in my heart that will stay forever, but my life will still go on and go of the people who can’t treat me right and hold on to those who love me and see my worth. Looking forward for the coming year that would be a good year, not only for myself, for my son, my family and friends as well. Thank you for all the blessings and friends who are always there for me in good and in bad times. And for making my life more meaningful. I wish for happiness and more blessings the whole year through. To everyone, may we all bless what is truly essential in life, a strong spirit, brave heart, healthy body, endless love, abundant grace and a bountiful new year.

HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL!!!

Freedom…

Freedom is of the utmost importance to a man. A woman longs to be possessed, a man longs to be free. Sometimes when woman thought about this reality they get insulted. A man needs to know he can have a woman and his freedom, too. And thinking that he will put them to the test to ensure his peace of mind. I want to see it for it is, and not to be over react. The truth is, freedom is an essential ingredients to any relationships. Saying like its easier than done. “If you love someone, set him free.” If people are meant to be in our lives, they will return of their own volition. This stage of the relationship is what separates the girls from the women. It examines their powers of restraint, exaggerates our greatest fears, and exposes their perception of their self worth. Most of all it tests our faith. At time like this I remember, If it is His will, it will happen! And if it is not His will, it’s better to find out early in the game so you can be free to receive the person He has chosen top you. It’s important to understand that He is not going to make this man to fall in love with you, He will simply allow the circumstances of this man’s life to reveal what is in his heart. It is really hard to find someone who will truly love us, but its more harder if when you happen to know that there is just no hope of you being together, yet you still pray to make it work. It is when your mind says to let go but your heart says hold on… When a man feels the tug on his heart to make a commitment, no matter how wonderful a time he is having with you the word “forever” its sounds like an iron gate cutting off his access to the highway of freedom…

Criticism…

Some people get a feeling of well-being and superior from criticizing their friends. If you are afflicted with that plague, divest yourself of the infection as soon as possible. If it is very painful for you to criticize your friends, you are safe in doing it. But if you take the slightest pleasure in it, that is the time to hold your tongue. Sometimes being a human we did criticizing, and they did as well. Well, all is said and done, a large part of our success at love will depend on our ability to accept human nature as it is. The judgmental temperament never generates much affection. “Judge not, that ye be not judged.” We all make mistakes, but every one makes different mistakes. And one has to grow older to become more tolerant. Like what have said, not to judge a man until his life is over. Why should we? I’m not telling you not to express an opinion. No, we all have our own opinion and lets be opinionated! Express our individuality as loudly as we need to. But be sure to give our friends and people around us the same privilege. Assertiveness is okay as long as it is not a crucial criticism. Good criticism encourages people and it helps us to grow…

Family…

I just want to share with you some reminders that touched my heart when I read it. It was circulated on our emails but just the same reminding us always… “I ran into a strangers as he passed by, ‘Oh excuse me’ was my reply. He said, ‘Please excuse me too; I wasn’t watching for you.’ We were very polite, this stranger and I. We went on our way and we said goodbye. But at home a different story is told, How we treat our loved ones, young and old. Later that day, cooking the evening meal, My son stood beside me very still. When I turned, I nearly knocked him down. Moved out of the way,! I said with a frown. He walked away, his little heart broken. I didn’t realize how harshly I’d spoken. While I lay awake in bed. A small voice came to me and said, While dealing with a stranger, common courtesy you use, but the family you love you seem to abuse. Go and look on the kitchen floor, You’ll find some flowers there by the door. Those are the flowers he brought for you. He picked them himself: pink, yellow and blue. He stood very quietly not to spoil the surprise, you never saw the tears that filled in his little eyes. By this time, I felt very small, and now my tears began to fall. I quietly went and knelt by his bed; ‘Wake up, little one, wake up,’ I said. ‘ Are this the flowers you picked for me?’ He smiled, ‘ I found ‘em, out by the tree. I picked ‘em because they’re pretty like you. I knew you’d like ‘em, specially the blue.’ I said, son I’m very sorry for the way I acted today; I shouldn’t have yelled at you that way.’ He said ‘Oh, Mom that’s okay. I love you anyway.’ I said, son I love you too, And I do like the flowers especially the blue.” Are you aware if we died tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of days. But the family we left behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives. And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more into work than into our own family, an unwise investment indeed, don’t you think? So what is behind the story? Do you know what the word family means?

FAMILY= (F)ATHER (A)ND (M)OTHER (I)( L)OVE (Y)OU.

Oh! thank you for this story…

Listening to my Heart…

Heart describe the bundle of desires, hopes, interests, ambitions, dreams, and affections that we have. Our heart represents the source of all motivations, what we love to do and what we care about most. I use the word when I say “I love you with all my heart.” The heart reflects the person. My heart reveals the real me. What you truly are and what others think you are or what circumstances force you to be. My heart determines why I say the things I do, why I feel the way I do, and why I act the way I do. People have each unique heartbeat. Each of us have different subjects, activities and circumstances that interest us. The other word of “heart” is “passion”. I feel passionate on things I love to do and it reveals the nature of my heart. When you are doing what you love to do, no one has to motivate you or challenge you. For me, I do it for the sheer enjoyment, I don’t need a rewards or applause or payment. When I don’t have a heart for what I’m doing, I easily discouraged. Not to waste my life in anything that doesn’t express my heart. And to remember always, don’t settle for just achieving “the good life” because the good life is not enough and it doesn’t satisfy. I can have a lot to live on and still have nothing to live for. The highest achievers in any field are those who do it because of passion, not duty or profit. I’m still searching on one thing that expresses my heart and figure out what I love to do… and what a heart to do…

The Art of Letting Go…

One reasons why people get so sentimental… It’s because memories are the only things that don’t change… When everything else does… there are things in life that you can’t hold on forever, No matter how much you fight for it. Sometimes destiny isn’t always good, it becomes playful.

When you met someone you learned to love, you thought that it was destiny who made your paths cross. But what if making your paths cross is just a part of the game that the playful destiny create? Making you realize in the end that the person you thought that was destined for you wasn’t really meant to stay…

But only destined to make you feel love and leave you when you’ve already fallen. It’s not easy to state a reason when you decide to leave your love… Some might think it’s just an excuse… some might not actually believe… some will blame you…some might even be mad at you…

What they don’t see is the fact that it hurts you even more to hurt someone who doesn’t deserve to be hurt… especially when you can’t actually state the reason why you have to leave… You can never own something that was never yours… So lets stop gripping on things we expect to last forever… Nothing lasts forever… Forever is a lie. Everything is transitory.

So while you have something in your hand, put in mind that it’s just borrowed… So that someday when it’s gone, it won’t take you eternity just to let it go… When your feelings get strong for someone, its always wise to stop for a while and give your heart… -a time to breath… a time to use your mind to weigh the situation based on reason not on emotion… Because the saddest thing that can happen is when one fall in love while the other wants nothing more than friendship… love sometimes can be magic… but magic can sometimes an illusion…

There are times when I wish that I was limited to certain emotions… So that I’ll never have to experience pain, never feel betrayed or disappointed, and never get my fragile heart broken… But the same thing means that I’ll never know how it feels to love and be loved in return… The thought of it kind of scares me… To have a heart that’s whole but numb… or a heart that’s broken but real… Someday we’ll all looking back to those days we learned to love, get hurt, cry and fight.

Maybe when the time comes, we’ll be laughing at our old dumb selves… Realizing how stupid we were to stand up for things we knew weren’t really meant for us… But I guess learning takes time, and mistakes make one’s journey fun… Life is what we make it. Love makes the world go round… So let’s live, love, and take what ever pain it brings… Though it’s hard to wait around for something that I know will never happen…

It’s harder to stop when I know it’s everything I’ve always wanted… But you know what I’m glad… I’m glad it happened… We’re good FRIENDS… and I’m thankful for that… Take care always my dear friend… I’m just here…

On My Own…

Life is like a game of chess, in which there are infinite number of complex moves possible. The choice is open but the move contains within itself all future moves. One is free to choose, but what follows is the result of one’s choice. From the consequences of one’s action there is never any scape. This past few days, I came to think about my life and my future. I’m not getting younger at all. I’m getting tired of my life, of being alone. I have to do something. I can’t say I’m happy and contented of what I have… Cause I felt there is something missing. One friend told me, I need someone to make my life colorful and a someone who will take good care of me. But it’s not that easy. Seeds don’t grow into trees in a few hours and bear fruit tomorrow. Babies don’t learn alphabet overnight. I need to put in all my effort to gain it. One requirements of life is the ability to makes choices. I need to know how to look at myself clearly. I believe there is someone for me. Believing that there are powers at work in my life and I do share to make my dreams come true. Those who believe that life is an upward journey are those who have life enhancing beliefs. I see what I really believe in. My life today is the result of my attitudes and choices in the past. My life tomorrow will be the result of my attitudes and the choices I made today…

Wisdom…

If you don’t really love someone don’t show any motive that can cause them to love you. All of us take love seriously if we fall, but in temptation we’re not that strong. Lets use our heart to take care the person we love. And use your mind to take care of yourself. Hold on to the things that you don’t want to see others to hold it. If you love someone and doesn’t love you back, let it be somehow you might feel the same way. And if your not happy of being with someone do what your heart feels. Letting go is never been easy, and holding on can be as difficult. Yet, strength measured not by holding on but by letting go. If your love don’t love you… don’t feel bad because someone loves you too… and you don’t… (quits). Loneliness nor fear are the hardiest part of being alone, but to accept that there are millions of people in the world, but no one fights to be with you. If you love someone and not worth of your love and hurt you don’t blame your heart. Your heart beats to supply blood into your body. Now if your good in anatomy blame the hypothalamus that controls your emotions. And don’t blame it to your body organs of having bad feelings and having regrets in your life. Bear in mind you can only be happy if you will accept that its not the heart, mind, liver or intestine of yours that cause your pain in your life. But it’s YOU is to be blame of. This is my words of wisdom it may sounds corny, just having fun in this crazy world… Life is too short have fun and live life to the fullest…

Forgiveness…

Finally, there will be a time you need to FORGIVE. It’s difficult, especially when the other person doesn’t deserve your forgiveness or doesn’t even seek it. It’s difficult when the other person is clearly wrong. Part of the difficulty comes from a common misunderstanding of forgiveness.

Forgiveness doesn’t mean that the other person’s behavior is okay. And forgiveness doesn’t mean that the other person is off the hook. He’s still responsible for his misbehavior.

Forgiveness is about letting yourself off the emotional hook. It’s about releasing your negative emotions, attitudes, and behaviors. It’s about letting go of the past so you can go forward to the future.

Everyone in your life, everyone on and off the job is going to disappoint you. If you know how to respond to those situations, you’ll be way ahead of most people. You’ll be able to live above and beyond your circumstances.